Issue no. 1 — On wanting something real
mydesires is a private, members-only chat platform for adults who know what they want. Our team screens every member, listens to what you're looking for, and introduces you — one person at a time — to someone who wants the same.
01 — The wish list
Choose whatever feels true and we'll turn it into a note. Send it to us and it becomes the start of your screening. Nothing is stored on this page.
Hello,
I'd like to be considered for mydesires. I'm looking for something serious.
I'd love to meet someone who loves long dinners and laughs easily, ideally in my city.
Happy to tell you more during screening.
02 — How it works
Send a few lines to admin@mydesires.cc — who you are and what you're hoping for. The wish list above will write it for you.
A relaxed, confidential conversation with our team and an identity check. We're looking for people who are real, respectful and genuinely looking.
If we're right for each other, we explain membership and arrange payment personally. Your fee pays for real screening and keeps the platform free of ads.
We email you a personal access link. It's your key — no public login page, no username, no password to forget.
We introduce you to someone who wants what you want, with a note explaining why. From there, the conversation is entirely yours.
03 — The introduction
Every introduction arrives with a short note from the person who made it — what you share, and what you'll probably disagree about.
Start talking, ask your introducer a question first, or pass graciously. The other person has exactly the same choice. Nobody is ever shown to you as a list.
04 — The platform
Never a catalogue of faces. You meet one person, chosen by people who've spoken to you both.
Your profile is only visible to the person you're introduced to. Nothing is searchable, indexed or public.
Every member is identity-checked and spoken to before joining. No bots, no fake profiles, no pretending.
No read receipts, no online status, no streaks. Reply when you have something to say, pause whenever you like.
Not feeling it? Close the conversation with a respectful note in one tap. Nobody here gets ghosted.
The people who screened you are the people who introduce you — and the people who answer when you write.
05 — Membership
We keep mydesires deliberately small. That means we sometimes say no — and it means everyone you meet here has been through the same process as you.
Membership is a paid service. Fees are explained personally once your screening is complete, so you'll only be asked to pay when we both agree it's a good fit.
mydesires
requests the pleasure of
your application
R.S.V.P. — admin@mydesires.cc
06 — Questions
Your personal access link has already been sent to you by email. Open it on the device you'd like to use and you'll be signed straight in. Can't find it? Search your inbox and spam folder for “mydesires”, or write to us and we'll resend it.
Open sign-up is how other platforms fill up with bots, scammers and people who aren't really looking. Everyone here has spoken with our team first. It's slower — and that's the point.
A short, confidential conversation about you and what you're looking for, followed by identity verification. It usually takes a few days from your first email, and we'll tell you clearly whether it's a fit.
Screening properly and making thoughtful introductions takes real time from real people. Membership fees mean we never need advertising or to sell your data — and that everyone here is serious.
Only our team, and only to make better introductions. Your profile is visible only to the person you're introduced to, there's no search inside the platform, and nothing about you is public on the web.
Pass graciously, or tell your introducer why — we use every piece of feedback to make the next introduction better. If anything ever feels unsafe, our team steps in straight away.
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